IDEAS FOR PARENTS

bulletProvide support and give clear boundaries.
    Love = remember both cheerleading and discipline are necessary.
 
bulletBring other adults into lives of youth.
    Expand the circle of relationships; positive influences help build lives.
    Create intergenerational connections; pass best of culture along.
 
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Practice what you preach--model well.
    Live asset messages: support, empowerment, boundaries, constructive
    time use, life-long learning, positive values, social competence, positive
    identity.
 

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Seek help and support of others.
    Network in every direction. Promote asset building in neighborhoods,
    schools, and community. Read All Kids Our Kids by Dr. Peter Benson,
    available from the Search Institute.
 

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Spend time together.
   
Communicate, reflect, share values and beliefs, laugh, cry. Meet your
    child's friends Go places and do things as a family. Build traditions.
 

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Forgive self and others.
   
Humans make mistakes. Mend broken hearts. Move on constructively.
 

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Express thanks and learn forever.
   
Thank others of all ages around you. Give due credit. Celebrate
    strengths; work on areas for improvement. Live the Golden Rule.

Dr. Donald Draayer, National Superintendent of the Year, 1990-91, Search Institute Trainer

 

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